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Viral toddler nap video proves one thing: The nap always wins
In the timeless struggle between toddlers and naptime, sleep invariably emerges victorious. A viral TikTok video featuring young Stella encapsulates this universal truth, resonating with parents worldwide.
In the clip, shared by Stella's mother,
@lobeeston, she recounts how her daughter adamantly insisted she wasn't tired and refused to nap. However, when the family later called out, "Stella, where are you?" they discovered her fast asleep at the foot of the stairs, face down and utterly exhausted. This endearing scene has garnered over 3.9 million views and 700,000 likes, with countless parents sharing their own humorous nap-time battles in the comments.
@lobeeston Took 30 minutes to wake her from this slumber hahah
♬ original sound - Lo Beeston
Why do toddlers resist naps?
Stella's sudden slumber is a familiar scenario for many parents. But what drives toddlers to resist napping?
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According to pediatric sleep consultant
Camila Martelo, a Pediatric Sleep Consultant, it's a combination of developmental milestones and a desire for independence.
"Toddlers are becoming increasingly aware of their surroundings and may fear missing out on exciting activities or time with family members."
— Camila Martelo
Additionally, as toddlers grow, their sleep patterns evolve. Many transition from two naps to one between 14 and 18 months, and some begin skipping naps altogether between 3 and 5 years old. (
The Baby Sleep Site)
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Navigating nap resistance can be challenging, but experts offer strategies to ease the process:
Establish a consistent, calming pre-nap routine: A soothing and predictable routine helps signal to your toddler that it's time to wind down and prepare for sleep. (Huckleberry Care)
Pay attention to timing: Ensure that naps are scheduled appropriately to prevent overtiredness, which can make it harder for toddlers to settle down.
Create a calming nap environment: Minimize distractions and create a sleep-friendly environment to help your toddler relax.
Offer choices and give them some control: Allowing your toddler to have a say in their nap routine can reduce resistance.
Be consistent and patient: Maintaining a consistent approach and being patient can help your toddler adjust to nap times.
While parenting through the toddler years can be exhausting, Stella's nap adventure serves as a humorous reminder to find joy in the chaos. Moments like these—when a defiant "I'm not tired!" ends in an impromptu snooze—become cherished memories.via GIPHY