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Living In Faith
Living In Faith
23 w

Humble Confidence as Secure Curiosity
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Humble Confidence as Secure Curiosity

One of my mentors gave me wise advice as I first stepped into my senior pastor role: Lead with humble confidence. Although oxymoronic, the phrase intuitively made sense to me. This is the way of our crucified Savior: strength through restraint and victory through death. But what does leading with humble confidence practically look like for a leader today? Does it mean strongly pushing one’s own agenda but qualifying it every time with “If the Lord wills”? Is it about balancing out strong preaching with patient counseling? Or receiving criticism well without being devastated? In this cultural climate marked by various leadership crises in the church, I wonder if one of the timely expressions of humble confidence we need is secure curiosity: leading with the ability to genuinely listen to and learn from others out of a secure sense of self in Jesus. Secure Curiosity As Christians, we must constantly remember our ultimate source of security isn’t in what we own or accomplish but in what we receive in and from God (Matt. 6:19; Rom. 8:14–17). We’re his image-bearers, fearfully and wonderfully made by our Creator (Gen. 1:27; Ps. 139:14). We also receive for ourselves the benediction that Jesus heard from the Father during his baptism: “You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased” (Mark 1:11), not because of our efforts but because of Christ’s willing work to take on our sin’s consequences (which we deserve) and give us his righteousness (which he deserves; see 2 Cor. 5:21). This good word that was only fitting for Jesus is now ours to receive by faith. Our ultimate source of security isn’t in what we own or accomplish but in what we receive in and from God. Every morning when we wake up, it’s worth remembering that our sense of security, and therefore our confidence, isn’t earned but received. As leaders, grasping this truth allows us to pour ourselves out to our people, not because we need to feed our insecurities but because our sense of self is already secure in Jesus. I’ve long wrestled with my Asian American identity as a potential liability in my leadership of a multiethnic church that’s striving to be more diverse. This has partly been a battle against my inner critic––which is common among Asian American leaders––but is also based in the reality that there aren’t many models for Asian American senior pastors and leaders in multiethnic churches. While this wrestling motivated my work ethic for a short time, it wasn’t able to ground me. I woke up each morning needing to earn and prove, not receive and rest. After reflecting further, I realized I didn’t know how to rightly view and embrace my Asian American identity the way God would see it in his own child. The security I was called to find repeatedly through God’s Word was that my cultural identity, along with my growth journey as a pastor, aren’t accidents to compensate for. Rather, these are the outworkings of God’s perfect design and sovereign grace in my life to receive and embrace in full. By his grace, and with intentionality, he fearfully and wonderfully made me. And by that same grace, he has sustained me through the highs and lows that have accompanied my growth as a leader (2 Cor. 12:9). This helped me to realize I have so much more to offer to those around me when I fully receive and humbly lead out of God’s unique and purposeful design of my life as his son and his servant. From this place of security, which gives us otherworldly confidence, we can lead others with humility expressed through curiosity. Secure Curiosity In Mark 2, the scribes question Jesus in their hearts after seeing him heal a paralyzed man (vv. 6–8). But this kind of questioning is far from curious, for it comes from grumbling hearts. The scribes have already made up their minds about what’s happening through Jesus, so they can’t see him for who he truly is. In contrast, people who question from a spirit of curiosity desire to learn. They see and hear others, and they value differing perspectives even in disagreements. Ministry leaders need to build their curiosity muscles to exercise healthy power, build up other leaders, and create a culture of trust and vulnerability that comes through humility. Ministry leaders need to build their curiosity muscles to exercise healthy power, build up other leaders, and create a culture of trust and vulnerability that comes through humility. Leading with curiosity doesn’t mean we lack conviction, nor does it mean we shirk the responsibility to make timely decisions. Rather, the goal is to pursue secure curiosity. Because we’re secure in our sense of self in Jesus, because we have confidence in our convictions without attaching our ego to them, we can empower others, ask for their input, and thereby demonstrate that learning from others is an essential ingredient for confident leadership. Curiosity without security produces unstable leadership. Security without curiosity produces stuck leadership. Secure curiosity means we don’t need to consider people as projects, peers as competitors, or ministry as a means to alleviate our insecurities. Secure curiosity means we can genuinely and intentionally make the first move as leaders to ask questions, learn from differences, admit mistakes, and pay attention to the Spirit’s movement in various conversations and even conflicts for greater learning. This is much easier said than done, and I’m learning as I go. But perhaps this process is exactly what people long to see in a leader in this cultural moment—someone who’s a work in progress, growing in living and leading out of a secure sense of self in Jesus, and therefore confident enough to learn from mistakes and ask questions with genuine curiosity. Lead with Humble Confidence Pastors and leaders, lead with humble confidence. Embrace the security that can only be received and not earned. Secure in that sense of self, open your ears and hearts to humbly learn from others. Let secure curiosity set the tone and culture for those you’re leading, so they may take on a similar leadership approach in all spheres of their lives. May we taste the goodness and joy of the gospel security that gives us the confidence we cannot manufacture on our own (2 Cor. 5:11). May our curiosity in our constant learning from others give us the humility to truly consider others more significant than ourselves (Phil. 2:3).
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Living In Faith
Living In Faith
23 w

Personality Clash: John Owen and Richard Baxter in Conflict
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Personality Clash: John Owen and Richard Baxter in Conflict

When I think of recent feuds, musicians like Drake and Kendrick Lamar or athletes like Kobe and Shaq come to mind. I’m surprised by how hot the emotions get when observers choose sides. The substance of these trivial beefs rarely leaves the circles of pop culture, yet their effects seep into our lives. We get so accustomed to the silliness of these debates that we sometimes underestimate substantive divisions in our circles and fail to navigate them well. In When Christians Disagree: Lessons from the Fractured Relationship of John Owen and Richard Baxter, Tim Cooper, professor of church history at the University of Otago, delves into the contentious relationship between two prominent 17th-century Puritan figures. Despite their shared commitment to reforming the Church of England, their lifelong rivalry was marked by deep animosity. Cooper’s exploration of their contrasting views on salvation and confessions reveals the destructive power of theological division, even among those who share a common faith. By examining the complexities of Owen and Baxter’s relationship, Cooper challenges us to consider the importance of Christian unity. He reminds us that genuine disagreement, rooted in deeply held convictions, can lead to substantial fractures—but it’s possible to maintain loving relationships even when we disagree. Underlying Personality Clash Baxter and Owen, though both Puritans, differed significantly in their backgrounds and personalities. Born a year apart in the early 17th century, they occupied different spheres of influence and life trajectories. Their experiences influenced their approaches to the issues that divided them. For example, Owen, a well-educated scholar and ambitious networker, viewed the English Civil War (1642–51) as divine liberation. Baxter, a less formally educated but deeply passionate believer, experienced the war firsthand and saw it as divine judgment. Neither fought in the war, but Baxter’s geography brought him face-to-face with hostility, death, and destruction. Owen’s war experience was calm and distant as he served as a chaplain to Oliver Cromwell. Despite their different backgrounds, both men were sometimes proud and stubborn. Owen, the son of a clergyman, preached sermons to Parliament on three occasions and was an intimate of Cromwell. He was determined and “desirous of honour and preferment” (47), and he didn’t take kindly to disagreement. In contrast, Baxter evinced the cloistered thinking found in autodidacts. He came across as “haughty . . . impervious to correction . . . incapable of self-doubt” (51). He said, “Though I offend, I must say that which cannot be hid” (53). Baxter would rather have “the discord of the saints” than the “concord of the wicked” (120). According to Cooper, “The difficulties between John Owen and Richard Baxter represented, as much as anything else, a personality clash” (41). So one lesson from this historical disagreement is that our personal biases tend to intensify conflict. By understanding the role of personality traits, we can work to mitigate their effects and foster more constructive dialogue. Substantive Theological Disputes One lesson from this historical disagreement is that our personal biases tend to intensify conflict. Baxter and Owen held divergent theological views that formed the substance of their quarrel. A major contention was their approach to Socinianism, a heresy that denies the Trinity. Owen, a staunch defender of orthodox Trinitarianism, wrote extensively against Socinianism and viewed Baxter’s theology as inadvertently encouraging it. Baxter claimed to be orthodox; however, he spoke much like a Socinian and wouldn’t accept any formulation of authorized doctrine that went even one syllable beyond Scripture’s words. The Socinian controversy revealed a major divide between the men on their views of church confessions. Baxter favored a more informal approach, emphasizing the importance of personal faith and spiritual experience. As Cooper observes, “Baxter wondered if a believer from the early church who firmly held to the Apostles’ Creed or the Nicene Creed could even be accepted as a Christian in this later, contentious, confession-ridden age” (89). Owen, on the other hand, preferred a more formal approach, emphasizing the importance of doctrinal orthodoxy and confessional subscription. The issue seemed to hinge not merely on principle but also on each man’s place within the church’s hierarchy. The men were even divided on the issue of salvation. Yet here Cooper argues there was more than theology at play. He notes, “Their different experiences infiltrated each one’s theology of salvation: Baxter hammering away at human responsibility, Owen constantly arguing that the only merits that mattered were those of Christ alone” (70). Each man’s theological emphasis, Cooper argues, was influenced by his confidence in his ability and social position. These theological disagreements, coupled with Owen and Baxter’s personal differences, created a toxic dynamic that prevented meaningful dialogue and cooperation between the two men. Their inability to bridge their differences serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of unhealthy theological division and the importance of maintaining healthy debate within the church. Seek Faithful Disagreement This historical account is helpful in our contentious age. However, there are points where Cooper’s presentation of Baxter’s theology seems overly generous. For example, Cooper argues, “We can see both men as Calvinists” (69). Yet, as pastor Andrew Belli writes, “[Baxter’s] views on justification and atonement were not in step with the Reformed tradition,” and “Baxter leaned toward Arminian sentiments in major areas.” While both Owen and Baxter were godly and committed to the gospel, their theological disagreements were substantive. Each man’s theological emphasis, Cooper argues, was influenced by his confidence in his ability and social position. Additionally, nonhistorians may find some of the debate hard to follow. There’s too little context on the Nonconformists, the Church of England, and the aims foiled by the monarch returning to power. The book’s emphasis is, rightly, on the interpersonal clash between the two men. However, it’d be helpful to get more information on the debate’s stakes. In balance, When Christians Disagree is a fascinating case study of the personal and theological factors that can fuel division within the church. As Cooper reminds us, “Not all disagreement stems from a high-minded concern for the truth” (120). Baxter and Owen’s rivalry demonstrates how even the most devout believers can be blinded by their prejudices. The book doesn’t offer definitive solutions to theological conflict, yet it’ll benefit pastors and church leaders as it encourages humility, charity, and commitment to truth even as they pursue faithful disagreement within the church.
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Living In Faith
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Opportunities at Christmas with Glen Scrivener and Andrew Wilson
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Opportunities at Christmas with Glen Scrivener and Andrew Wilson

In this episode of TGC Podcast, Kendra Dahl, Andrew Wilson, and Glen Scrivener explore the incarnation’s richness and the unique opportunities for evangelism during Christmas. They discuss the following: Cultural challenges and the transition from Advent to Christmas The richness of the incarnation Challenges of preaching the incarnation Learning from the United Kingdom’s evangelism at Christmas Christmas as a paradigm for year-round evangelism Recommended resources: Andrew Wilson, It’s Beginning to Look a Lot like Christmas (book) Glen Scrivener, The Gift (book) Glen Scrivener, “Glory to God in the Lowest” (article) SpeakLife “There’s a Dragon in My Nativity” (video)
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Homesteaders Haven
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Holiday Party Planning Made Easy: Menu Ideas, Themes, and Decor Tips ?✨
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Holiday Party Planning Made Easy: Menu Ideas, Themes, and Decor Tips ?✨

Planning a holiday party shouldn’t feel overwhelming. Actually, you can host a stress-free and unforgettable gathering with thoughtful preparation and a touch of creativity. Whether you envision a sophisticated soirée or a lighthearted ugly sweater bash, this guide filled with practical tips offers actionable ideas to make your event a success! Start with an Engaging Holiday Party Theme A well-chosen theme simplifies your planning by aligning decor, food, and activities, which creates a memorable atmosphere for guests. Here are four creative ideas: Winter Wonderland Picture your home transformed into a snowy, glittering haven. Use silver and white accents, faux snow, and twinkling fairy lights to set the mood. Complement the look with icy blue napkins or frosted glassware. To complete the theme, serve “snowball” cookies and white-hot chocolate in clear mugs. For more decorating tips, check out HGTV’s holiday decor ideas. Ugly Sweater Bash Encourage guests to wear their most ridiculous sweaters to create a festive and humorous vibe. Organize contests with categories like “Most Hideous” or “Best Handmade.” Use oversized ornaments, candy cane garlands, and colorful lights for playful decor. A photo booth with props like elf hats and reindeer antlers will provide entertainment and photo-worthy moments. Holiday Movie Marathon Choose a classic holiday film, such as Elf or Home Alone, to anchor your party. Dim the lights and provide cozy blankets for a theater-like experience. Add a snack bar with popcorn, movie-themed cookies, and hot cocoa. Label food stations with movie quotes for an extra touch of fun. If you need snack ideas, explore The Spruce Eats’ holiday recipes. Elegant Evening Affair Opt for metallic tones like gold or silver paired with crisp white linens for a refined gathering. Serve hors d’oeuvres, such as prosciutto-wrapped figs or crab-stuffed mushrooms, alongside champagne cocktails. Play soft instrumental holiday music to maintain a polished yet festive ambiance. Plan a Tasty and Efficient Menu Once your theme is set, focus on a flavorful and easy-to-prepare menu. Choose dishes you can make or serve buffet-style to maximize your time with guests. Appetizers Stuffed Mushrooms: Fill large mushrooms with a creamy cheese mixture, breadcrumbs, and fresh herbs. Bake until golden brown for easy, bite-sized delights. Charcuterie Boards: Include seasonal items like spiced nuts, dried cranberries, and rosemary sprigs. Arrange meats, cheeses, and crackers beautifully for an eye-catching display. For tips, visit The Spruce Eats’ charcuterie guide. Main Dishes Glazed Spiral Ham: A sweet, smoky classic that’s as easy to prepare as it is delicious. Bake, slice, and serve. Butternut Squash Risotto: A creamy vegetarian option that’s hearty and flavorful enough to please any guest. Desserts Peppermint Bark: Layer white and dark chocolate, sprinkle with crushed candy canes, and let harden. Break into pieces for serving. DIY Cookie Bar: Provide sugar cookies, frosting, and sprinkles so guests can decorate their own treats. Drinks Cranberry Spritzers: Mix cranberry juice with prosecco and garnish with a sprig of rosemary. Hot Apple Cider: Simmer apple cider with cinnamon sticks and cloves. Serve warm in clear mugs with orange slices. Decorate Your Space with Impact Your decor sets the tone for the entire event. Even simple touches can transform your home into a festive and inviting space. Add Layers of Lighting String fairy lights along mantels, doorways, and windows to create a soft glow. Add candles of varying heights to enhance depth and warmth. Flameless candles are an excellent option for safety in high-traffic areas.  Focus on the Centerpiece Create an elegant centerpiece with pine branches, pinecones, and candles. For a festive finish, add metallic ornaments or faux snow. This versatile setup complements both rustic and sophisticated themes. Personalize Place Settings Wrap cloth napkins with twine and attach handwritten name tags. Include a sprig of rosemary or cinnamon stick for added fragrance and style. These small details make guests feel appreciated. DIY Ornament Wall Hang ornaments vertically on fishing lines to create a striking photo backdrop. Pair the display with garlands or a wreath to enhance the holiday charm. Pro Hosting Tips to Reduce Stress Even with the best plans, hosting can feel overwhelming. These practical tips will help you stay organized and relaxed: Prep Early: Complete cooking, cleaning, and decorating one or two days before the party. Delegate Tasks: Ask friends or family to help with simple responsibilities, such as refilling drinks or managing the playlist. Include Activities: Offer engaging options like trivia games, ornament decorating, or a photo booth to keep guests entertained. Holiday Party Planning Made Easy Holiday party planning doesn’t have to feel stressful. By selecting a thoughtful theme, preparing an easy menu, and adding charming decor, you'll create an enjoyable and unforgettable celebration. These tips will keep you organized, help you create lasting memories, and allow you to enjoy the party alongside your guests. Start planning today! Choose your theme, finalize your menu, and begin decorating.  FAQs How far in advance should I start planning? Begin 3-4 weeks ahead to finalize a theme, send invitations, and shop for supplies. How do I pick the right theme? Think about your guest list, available space, and personal style. For elegance, choose a Winter Wonderland. For fun, go with an Ugly Sweater Bash. What’s an easy way to decorate on a budget? Use affordable items like fairy lights and natural accents like pinecones or branches. How do I accommodate dietary restrictions? Offer a variety of dishes, including vegetarian, gluten-free, and dairy-free options. Clearly label each dish. How can I make my party kid-friendly? Set up a kids’ corner with crafts, movies, or cookie decorating. Offer simple, fun snacks.
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Gladiator Rock Tour! Featuring Heavy Metal Artists: Toto, Christopher Cross and Men at Work (Huh?)
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Gladiator Rock Tour! Featuring Heavy Metal Artists: Toto, Christopher Cross and Men at Work (Huh?)

Gladiator Rock Tour! Featuring Heavy Metal Artists: Toto, Christopher Cross and Men at Work (Huh?)
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Kamala Reheats ‘Bring Your Own Dish’ Joke in Stale Stand-Up Routine
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Kamala Reheats ‘Bring Your Own Dish’ Joke in Stale Stand-Up Routine

Kamala Reheats ‘Bring Your Own Dish’ Joke in Stale Stand-Up Routine
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ABC News Reporter Says IG Report Refutes the 'Fedsurrection' Narrative From the 'Far Right'
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ABC News Reporter Says IG Report Refutes the 'Fedsurrection' Narrative From the 'Far Right'

As Twitchy reported, a Justice Department Inspector General report released coincidentally the day after FBI Director Christopher Wray announced his resignation revealed that the FBI had 26 confidential…
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Qantas Workers Strike Over Pay Dispute, Sparking Fears of Flight Delays
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Qantas Workers Strike Over Pay Dispute, Sparking Fears of Flight Delays

This comes just days after a flight from Brisbane to Adelaide was forced to make an emergency landing due to concerns about the braking system Australian airline Qantas is dealing with a strike from hundreds…
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Qantas Workers Strike Over Pay Dispute, Sparking Fears of Flight Delays
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Qantas Workers Strike Over Pay Dispute, Sparking Fears of Flight Delays

This comes just days after a flight from Brisbane to Adelaide was forced to make an emergency landing due to concerns about the braking system Australian airline Qantas is dealing with a strike from hundreds…
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NYT Says to Prepare for Guacamole to Become a Luxury Item
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NYT Says to Prepare for Guacamole to Become a Luxury Item

Last month, David Corn posted, "I hope Trump voters won’t mind paying more for guacamole." This was after President-elect Donald Trump threatened a 25 percent tariff on Mexican goods unless the country…
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