YubNub Social YubNub Social
    #pet
    Advanced Search
  • Login
  • Register

  • Night mode
  • © 2025 YubNub Social
    About • Directory • Contact Us • Privacy Policy • Terms of Use • Android • Apple iOS • Get Our App

    Select Language

  • English
Install our *FREE* WEB APP! (PWA)
Night mode
Community
News Feed (Home) Popular Posts Events Blog Market Forum
Media
Headline News VidWatch Game Zone Top PodCasts
Explore
Explore Jobs Offers
© 2025 YubNub Social
  • English
About • Directory • Contact Us • Privacy Policy • Terms of Use • Android • Apple iOS • Get Our App

Discover posts

Posts

Users

Pages

Group

Blog

Market

Events

Games

Forum

Jobs

Living In Faith
Living In Faith
41 w

A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move Forward – Your Daily Prayer – October 17
Favicon 
www.godupdates.com

A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move Forward – Your Daily Prayer – October 17

A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move ForwardBy Alisha Headley Bible Reading"...but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead. I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us" – Philippians 3:13-14, NLT Listen or Read Below: It's easy to look back on your life and have regrets. Sometimes, you regret things you did or wish you made different decisions, and then there are other times you regret the things you didn't do. But the truth is, you can't change the past, no matter how hard you try. You can, however, learn from the past and grow from the past while also remembering the past. In fact, God tells his people to remember His past faithfulness all throughout the Old Testament. It's okay to look at the past to grow, learn, and remember God's faithfulness. But it's not okay to look at the past and live with regrets and perhaps shame. When we live a life looking at past regrets, we stay stuck and are unable to move forward in what God is calling us to. You might feel like you have one foot forward and one foot stuck in your past. But remember, our God forgives, redeems, and offers grace so that we don't have to stay stuck in the past regrets of this world. God has called us to so much more. In today's verses, we are called to look forward to what lies ahead. Many of us stay stuck in the past, and we can't even see straight ahead. Paul encourages us to press on to reach the end of the race so that we can receive the heavenly prize that God is calling us to. Paul then goes on to say throughout the chapter that we are citizens of Heaven, and what we have ahead waiting for us is far greater than what this world offers us. When we forget the past, and look forward to what lies ahead, we are keeping heaven and its reward in mind while we live here on earth. When we have this mindset of pressing forward, we are reminded that it's not worth staying stuck in the past. Paul, who wrote the book of Philippians, is a great example of someone who didn't stay hung up on past regrets. I imagine Paul may have had many regrets, for Paul had signed off on the murder of Christians. Yet through his pressing on and with the help of the other disciples, the church was built and grew. With the Holy Spirit's leading, Paul was able to move forward and write much of what we now know as the New Testament epistles. With his new life, Paul encouraged other believers to let go of their past failures and press on toward what God has prepared ahead for them. We should strive to have a mindset like Paul had. Let's Pray: Dear God,It's so easy to stay stuck in the affairs of this world, along with our past regrets. Father, please forgive us for regrets that caused you hurt or that involve sin in our lives. Please forgive us and help us accept your forgiveness so we can shed the regret and shame that is hindering us from moving forward. Lord, show us other areas of our lives that we are stuck in so that we can let them go as well. We want to be like Paul, who was able to let go of the past, and move forward toward what you have for us. We want to partner with you and share you with others until one day, we become citizens of Heaven. Remind us to keep looking forward and to keep looking up at you when the past creeps up in our lives. We want to run the race without carrying a heavy load of past regrets. Thank you for loving us so much and forgiving us every time we fail. Thank you for chastening us and pruning us, shedding things of our past so we can uninhibitedly move forward with you. We look toward the heavenly prize for which you are calling us. We love you, Lord, and praise you for your goodness.In Jesus' name, we pray, amen. Photo credit: ©Getty Images/Fantom rd Alisha Headley is a writer + speaker who has a desire to meet the everyday woman in her everyday life with biblical truth. Stepping into her true calling, she left the corporate world behind as a former-financial VP to love on her family as a stay-at-home wifey + dog mama, while also being able to pursue her passion as a writer. Healing from a chapter of life consumed with lies she once believed about herself, she is inspired to point women to Christ to experience the freedom + power to overcome those lies with the truth written in God's word. In her free time, Alisha enjoys road trips around the country, working out so she can eat her favorite foods, and creatively styling her outfits with a craft for fashion. Alisha is a proud wifey and dog mama living in Scottsdale, Arizona. You can follow her blog by visiting her website or connect with her on facebook + instagram. Related Resource: Jesus Calling – Stories of Faith Kerry Washington. Andrea Bocelli. Reba McEntire. Mark Wahlberg. Tony Dungy. Matthew McConaughey, What do all of these people have in common? They are all people of faith who have leaned on God in both the good and challenging times-and they've shown up to tell their story of faith on The Jesus Calling Podcast. The Jesus Calling Podcast provides a place for people from all walks of life to share the heartaches, joys, and divine moments that keep them going.  Inspired by Sarah Young’s classic devotional book, the Jesus Calling podcast has brought encouragement and peace to millions. New episodes drop every Thursday! Listen today on LifeAudio.com or wherever you find your podcasts. Now that you’ve prayed, are you in need of someone to pray for YOU? Click the button below! The post A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move Forward – Your Daily Prayer – October 17 appeared first on GodUpdates.
Like
Comment
Share
Living In Faith
Living In Faith
41 w

The One Who Helps Us When We’re Afraid –  Encouragement for Today – October 17, 2024
Favicon 
www.godupdates.com

The One Who Helps Us When We’re Afraid –  Encouragement for Today – October 17, 2024

October 17, 2024 The One Who Helps Us When We're AfraidLYSA TERKEURST Lee en español "But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.'" Matthew 1:20 (NIV) Doesn't it feel like sometimes you can't think straight when you're afraid? Imagine being Joseph when he found out Mary was pregnant. He knew the child wasn't his. His mind must have fired off all kinds of assumptions and dreadful scenarios that could have caused this situation. His response? He made plans to divorce Mary in secret (Matthew 1:19). Joseph fell asleep with his decision weighing heavily on him - then God sent an angel to intervene. "... An angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit’" (Matthew 1:20). God had an assignment for Joseph and Mary: to bring forth the child and name Him Jesus (Matthew 1:21). And the enemy's tactic to mess up that plan could have included shame, anger, division, confusion ... But the angel of the Lord saw what was really keeping Joseph from staying in alignment with God's plan: fear. Make no mistake - the enemy wanted Joseph to be afraid. The enemy wants us to be afraid too. Not the healthy kind of fear that keeps us safe and alert but the horrible kind of fear that whispers worst-case scenarios absent of hope and full of defeat. The kind of fear that keeps us tossing and turning all night because of situations we can't control, people we can't change and outcomes that feel uncertain. Fear says, Entertain my entanglements. Linger in my lies. Drink deeply from my darkness. While we're distracted with fear, the enemy pickpockets our purpose. Cripples our courage. Dismantles our dreams. And blinds us to the beauty of the Lord's great plans. On the surface, God’s assignments for you may not seem like Joseph's at all. But they're incredibly similar. As a child of God, you, like Mary and Joseph, are to bring forth Jesus. Not in a physical sense - but you are to bring forth and proclaim the name of Jesus in everything you say and do, even when you're afraid. Proclaiming the name of Jesus brings power, protection and perspective that crushes fear. It is the name above every other name (Philippians 2:9). Joseph might have gone to bed afraid, but in his dream he heard the name of Jesus for the first time, and he woke up empowered to obey God's plan. Wow. The name of Jesus released Joseph from chains of fear. And I believe God wants us to experience the same right now. Is a relationship with unresolved conflict troubling you? Call on the name of Jesus. Is a financial situation paralyzing you with anxiety? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a frustration you're still thinking about from earlier today? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a parenting conversation you're dreading? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a medical diagnosis you didn't see coming? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a friend who asked you to pray for them, but you have no idea what to say? Call on the name of Jesus. Calling on Jesus can be our first response instead of what we do when nothing else seems to be working. It may look like surrendering our "why" questions and choosing instead to ask, Will You help me see You, Lord? Even in this? He is the One who can illuminate the dark places for us. He alone brings us peace in the midst of our unanswered questions. He is Immanuel, God with us. To whisper His name is to call on the power found only in His presence. Oh, friend, some of the most impactful prayers I've ever prayed are ones where I simply say the name of Jesus over and over again. Today, call upon His perfect name. You can know with confidence that "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1, NIV). Jesus, I speak Your name over the situation that's causing me the most angst right now. I can't navigate it on my own. I can't bear the weight on my own. I need Your help. I know Your power is made perfect in my weakness, so I am asking You to come near to me. Help me remember that You are with me and You are in control. I release my fears into Your faithful hands. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. OUR FAVORITE THINGS Have you ever thought, How can I trust God when I don't understand what He's allowing to happen right now? Lysa TerKeurst has been there too. In her new book, I Want to Trust You, but I Don't, Lysa will help you release the heavy mental and emotional weight of what you don't understand by learning how God's justice will always prevail. Get your copy! ENGAGE Find real-life encouragement when you connect with Lysa TerKeurst here on Instagram. FOR DEEPER STUDY John 8:12, "When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, ‘I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life'" (NIV). How would calling on the name of Jesus bring light into your life today? What would it look like today to lay down your fear and simply ask Him to help you see Him in the midst of it all? We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments. © 2024 by Lysa TerKeurst. All rights reserved. Proverbs 31 MinistriesP.O. Box 3189 Matthews, NC 28106 www.Proverbs31.org The post The One Who Helps Us When We’re Afraid –  Encouragement for Today – October 17, 2024 appeared first on GodUpdates.
Like
Comment
Share
Living In Faith
Living In Faith
41 w

A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move Forward – Your Daily Prayer – October 17
Favicon 
www.godupdates.com

A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move Forward – Your Daily Prayer – October 17

A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move ForwardBy Alisha Headley Bible Reading"...but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead. I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us" – Philippians 3:13-14, NLT Listen or Read Below: It's easy to look back on your life and have regrets. Sometimes, you regret things you did or wish you made different decisions, and then there are other times you regret the things you didn't do. But the truth is, you can't change the past, no matter how hard you try. You can, however, learn from the past and grow from the past while also remembering the past. In fact, God tells his people to remember His past faithfulness all throughout the Old Testament. It's okay to look at the past to grow, learn, and remember God's faithfulness. But it's not okay to look at the past and live with regrets and perhaps shame. When we live a life looking at past regrets, we stay stuck and are unable to move forward in what God is calling us to. You might feel like you have one foot forward and one foot stuck in your past. But remember, our God forgives, redeems, and offers grace so that we don't have to stay stuck in the past regrets of this world. God has called us to so much more. In today's verses, we are called to look forward to what lies ahead. Many of us stay stuck in the past, and we can't even see straight ahead. Paul encourages us to press on to reach the end of the race so that we can receive the heavenly prize that God is calling us to. Paul then goes on to say throughout the chapter that we are citizens of Heaven, and what we have ahead waiting for us is far greater than what this world offers us. When we forget the past, and look forward to what lies ahead, we are keeping heaven and its reward in mind while we live here on earth. When we have this mindset of pressing forward, we are reminded that it's not worth staying stuck in the past. Paul, who wrote the book of Philippians, is a great example of someone who didn't stay hung up on past regrets. I imagine Paul may have had many regrets, for Paul had signed off on the murder of Christians. Yet through his pressing on and with the help of the other disciples, the church was built and grew. With the Holy Spirit's leading, Paul was able to move forward and write much of what we now know as the New Testament epistles. With his new life, Paul encouraged other believers to let go of their past failures and press on toward what God has prepared ahead for them. We should strive to have a mindset like Paul had. Let's Pray: Dear God,It's so easy to stay stuck in the affairs of this world, along with our past regrets. Father, please forgive us for regrets that caused you hurt or that involve sin in our lives. Please forgive us and help us accept your forgiveness so we can shed the regret and shame that is hindering us from moving forward. Lord, show us other areas of our lives that we are stuck in so that we can let them go as well. We want to be like Paul, who was able to let go of the past, and move forward toward what you have for us. We want to partner with you and share you with others until one day, we become citizens of Heaven. Remind us to keep looking forward and to keep looking up at you when the past creeps up in our lives. We want to run the race without carrying a heavy load of past regrets. Thank you for loving us so much and forgiving us every time we fail. Thank you for chastening us and pruning us, shedding things of our past so we can uninhibitedly move forward with you. We look toward the heavenly prize for which you are calling us. We love you, Lord, and praise you for your goodness.In Jesus' name, we pray, amen. Photo credit: ©Getty Images/Fantom rd Alisha Headley is a writer + speaker who has a desire to meet the everyday woman in her everyday life with biblical truth. Stepping into her true calling, she left the corporate world behind as a former-financial VP to love on her family as a stay-at-home wifey + dog mama, while also being able to pursue her passion as a writer. Healing from a chapter of life consumed with lies she once believed about herself, she is inspired to point women to Christ to experience the freedom + power to overcome those lies with the truth written in God's word. In her free time, Alisha enjoys road trips around the country, working out so she can eat her favorite foods, and creatively styling her outfits with a craft for fashion. Alisha is a proud wifey and dog mama living in Scottsdale, Arizona. You can follow her blog by visiting her website or connect with her on facebook + instagram. Related Resource: Jesus Calling – Stories of Faith Kerry Washington. Andrea Bocelli. Reba McEntire. Mark Wahlberg. Tony Dungy. Matthew McConaughey, What do all of these people have in common? They are all people of faith who have leaned on God in both the good and challenging times-and they've shown up to tell their story of faith on The Jesus Calling Podcast. The Jesus Calling Podcast provides a place for people from all walks of life to share the heartaches, joys, and divine moments that keep them going.  Inspired by Sarah Young’s classic devotional book, the Jesus Calling podcast has brought encouragement and peace to millions. New episodes drop every Thursday! Listen today on LifeAudio.com or wherever you find your podcasts. Now that you’ve prayed, are you in need of someone to pray for YOU? Click the button below! The post A Prayer to Let Go of Past Regrets and Move Forward – Your Daily Prayer – October 17 appeared first on GodUpdates.
Like
Comment
Share
Living In Faith
Living In Faith
41 w

The One Who Helps Us When We’re Afraid –  Encouragement for Today – October 17, 2024
Favicon 
www.godupdates.com

The One Who Helps Us When We’re Afraid –  Encouragement for Today – October 17, 2024

October 17, 2024 The One Who Helps Us When We're AfraidLYSA TERKEURST Lee en español "But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.'" Matthew 1:20 (NIV) Doesn't it feel like sometimes you can't think straight when you're afraid? Imagine being Joseph when he found out Mary was pregnant. He knew the child wasn't his. His mind must have fired off all kinds of assumptions and dreadful scenarios that could have caused this situation. His response? He made plans to divorce Mary in secret (Matthew 1:19). Joseph fell asleep with his decision weighing heavily on him - then God sent an angel to intervene. "... An angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, ‘Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit’" (Matthew 1:20). God had an assignment for Joseph and Mary: to bring forth the child and name Him Jesus (Matthew 1:21). And the enemy's tactic to mess up that plan could have included shame, anger, division, confusion ... But the angel of the Lord saw what was really keeping Joseph from staying in alignment with God's plan: fear. Make no mistake - the enemy wanted Joseph to be afraid. The enemy wants us to be afraid too. Not the healthy kind of fear that keeps us safe and alert but the horrible kind of fear that whispers worst-case scenarios absent of hope and full of defeat. The kind of fear that keeps us tossing and turning all night because of situations we can't control, people we can't change and outcomes that feel uncertain. Fear says, Entertain my entanglements. Linger in my lies. Drink deeply from my darkness. While we're distracted with fear, the enemy pickpockets our purpose. Cripples our courage. Dismantles our dreams. And blinds us to the beauty of the Lord's great plans. On the surface, God’s assignments for you may not seem like Joseph's at all. But they're incredibly similar. As a child of God, you, like Mary and Joseph, are to bring forth Jesus. Not in a physical sense - but you are to bring forth and proclaim the name of Jesus in everything you say and do, even when you're afraid. Proclaiming the name of Jesus brings power, protection and perspective that crushes fear. It is the name above every other name (Philippians 2:9). Joseph might have gone to bed afraid, but in his dream he heard the name of Jesus for the first time, and he woke up empowered to obey God's plan. Wow. The name of Jesus released Joseph from chains of fear. And I believe God wants us to experience the same right now. Is a relationship with unresolved conflict troubling you? Call on the name of Jesus. Is a financial situation paralyzing you with anxiety? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a frustration you're still thinking about from earlier today? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a parenting conversation you're dreading? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a medical diagnosis you didn't see coming? Call on the name of Jesus. Is there a friend who asked you to pray for them, but you have no idea what to say? Call on the name of Jesus. Calling on Jesus can be our first response instead of what we do when nothing else seems to be working. It may look like surrendering our "why" questions and choosing instead to ask, Will You help me see You, Lord? Even in this? He is the One who can illuminate the dark places for us. He alone brings us peace in the midst of our unanswered questions. He is Immanuel, God with us. To whisper His name is to call on the power found only in His presence. Oh, friend, some of the most impactful prayers I've ever prayed are ones where I simply say the name of Jesus over and over again. Today, call upon His perfect name. You can know with confidence that "God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1, NIV). Jesus, I speak Your name over the situation that's causing me the most angst right now. I can't navigate it on my own. I can't bear the weight on my own. I need Your help. I know Your power is made perfect in my weakness, so I am asking You to come near to me. Help me remember that You are with me and You are in control. I release my fears into Your faithful hands. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. OUR FAVORITE THINGS Have you ever thought, How can I trust God when I don't understand what He's allowing to happen right now? Lysa TerKeurst has been there too. In her new book, I Want to Trust You, but I Don't, Lysa will help you release the heavy mental and emotional weight of what you don't understand by learning how God's justice will always prevail. Get your copy! ENGAGE Find real-life encouragement when you connect with Lysa TerKeurst here on Instagram. FOR DEEPER STUDY John 8:12, "When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, ‘I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life'" (NIV). How would calling on the name of Jesus bring light into your life today? What would it look like today to lay down your fear and simply ask Him to help you see Him in the midst of it all? We'd love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments. © 2024 by Lysa TerKeurst. All rights reserved. Proverbs 31 MinistriesP.O. Box 3189 Matthews, NC 28106 www.Proverbs31.org The post The One Who Helps Us When We’re Afraid –  Encouragement for Today – October 17, 2024 appeared first on GodUpdates.
Like
Comment
Share
100 Percent Fed Up Feed
100 Percent Fed Up Feed
41 w

Former Democratic Politician Receives Prison Sentence For Murder Of Investigative Journalist
Favicon 
100percentfedup.com

Former Democratic Politician Receives Prison Sentence For Murder Of Investigative Journalist

A former Las Vegas-area Democratic elected official was sentenced on Wednesday to serve at least 28 years in Nevada state prison for killing an investigative journalist. According to CBS News, Las Vegas Review-Journal reporter Jeff German wrote articles about Robert Telles that criticized his conduct in office and exposed an intimate relationship with a female co-worker. Former Nevada Dem politician sentenced to 28 years in prison for murder of Las Vegas investigative journalisthttps://t.co/3fUMHYsRah — The Post Millennial (@TPostMillennial) October 17, 2024 The 47-year-old former politician testified in his defense at trial and denied he stabbed German to death in September 2022. “Evidence against him was strong — including his DNA beneath German’s fingernails,” the Associated Press noted. LEARNS HIS FATE: Former Democratic politician Robert Telles will be behind bars for more than two decades after being convicted and sentenced for the murder of reporter Jeff German, who reported on turmoil within the Democrat's Las Vegas-area office before he lost his 2022… pic.twitter.com/IQm7doOSta — Fox News (@FoxNews) October 16, 2024 CBS News reports: A judge invoked sentencing enhancements for elements including use of a deadly weapon and the age of the reporter to add eight years to the minimum 20-year sentence that a jury set in August after finding Telles guilty of murder. “The judge couldn’t sentence him to any more time,” Clark County District Attorney Steve Wolfson said after telling reporters the sentence represented justice for the community. “She gave him the maximum.” During the sentencing, Telles addressed German’s family and offered his condolences but still maintained he was innocent, CBS affiliate KLAS-TV reported. “I understand the desire to seek justice and hold somebody accountable for this,” he said. “But I did not kill Mr. German.” Former Las Vegas politician Robert Telles was convicted of murdering investigative journalist Jeff German today, and sentenced to 28 years to life in prison. pic.twitter.com/8a11nXJ7hl — Las Vegas Locally (@LasVegasLocally) October 16, 2024 Former Las Vegas-area Democratic politician Robert Telles gets maximum 28 years for killing reporterhttps://t.co/ZJV10R2B4O pic.twitter.com/c8gmrCRnxC — The Washington Times (@WashTimes) October 17, 2024 From the Associated Press: Prosecutor Pamela Weckerly told the judge that evidence showed Telles killed German because “he didn’t like what Mr. German had written about him. He felt that Mr. German had cost him an elected position.” “This type of violence, this sort of political violence,” the prosecutor said, “is unacceptable and dangerous for a community as a whole.” Defense attorney Robert Draskovich asked for leniency and told the judge that Telles intends to appeal his conviction. After sentence was pronounced, Draskovich withdrew as Telles’ defense lawyer. German, 69, was a respected reporter who spent 44 years covering crime, courts and corruption in Las Vegas. “Twenty-eight years. I don’t know that you can quantify Jeff’s life that way,” said Rita Reid, the current holder of Telles’ former job. Reid was among colleagues who asked German to investigate Telles’ management in 2022, and she sat through all his court hearings, trial and sentencing. “Is that a fair trade? The whole community lost out,” she said.
Like
Comment
Share
Classic Rock Lovers
Classic Rock Lovers  
41 w

"I got to meet the new British Rock Royalty tonight" - Brian May praises The Last Dinner party after attending sold-out London show
Favicon 
www.loudersound.com

"I got to meet the new British Rock Royalty tonight" - Brian May praises The Last Dinner party after attending sold-out London show

It turns out Queen's Brian May is a big fan of the Queen-influenced The Last Dinner Party
Like
Comment
Share
NEWSMAX Feed
NEWSMAX Feed
41 w ·Youtube News & Oppinion

YouTube
Greg Kelly: Kamala Harris' Fox interview exposed just how 'angry and dishonest' she is
Like
Comment
Share
BlabberBuzz Feed
BlabberBuzz Feed
41 w

Nancy Pelosi Confirms THIS About Joe Biden...
Favicon 
www.blabber.buzz

Nancy Pelosi Confirms THIS About Joe Biden...

Like
Comment
Share
Living In Faith
Living In Faith
41 w

Pastor, Guard Your Church from Drift
Favicon 
www.thegospelcoalition.org

Pastor, Guard Your Church from Drift

If you’re going over a waterfall, you can see your impending peril. When you’re cascading down rapids, you know you need to brace and balance or you’ll be thrown overboard. But the scary thing about drifting is that by the time it’s happened, it’s often too late to correct. The current has already carried you away from safety. That’s why when you’re white-water rafting, you need an experienced guide. I think of this imagery when I talk to church leaders about the role they play in our cultural moment. My theme verse is Hebrews 2:1: “Therefore we must pay much closer attention to what we have heard, lest we drift away from it.” The gospel is the church’s fixed point of orientation on the shore. Only by keeping our people focused on the gospel will they see how far they’ve drifted. Only then will they fight the current and change course—hopefully, before it’s too late. Below, I offer two ways church members tend to drift today, and I present one solution: godly pastors centered on Jesus. At The Gospel Coalition, we want to be a pastor’s best friend. We want to cheer pastors on, to help them run their ministry course with endurance (Heb. 12:1). With constant reminders of the gospel, we want to help them fight against the currents that could lead their churches to disaster. Church Members Are Distracted Earlier this year, I talked to a respected, retired pastor who has spent decades in a Southern U.S. college town. I asked him how church ministry has changed over the years. I expected him to say something about social media. His answer was more prosaic: affluence. American Christians earn and spend a lot more money now than they did in the mid-20th century. Affluence creates more opportunities for activities outside church. Sunday has become a day for travel, leisure, and sport rather than a day for rest and worship. Regular attendance has been revised down from four times a month to three, and now to between once or twice per month. Thanks to affluence, too many other engaging activities vie for our attention. We want to cheer pastors on, to help them run their ministry course with endurance. Youth travel sports wouldn’t be possible apart from affluence. Pursuing college athletic scholarships keeps increasing numbers of American families away from church. They’ve drifted from one kind of worship to another—from the worship of God to the vainglory of children’s games. Rarely do the decisions to participate start with that awareness. But the cultural currents take over, and families drift away from church and apart from one another as they’re pulled in competing directions down interstate highways into chain hotels. Affluence also creates the leisure time that has enabled media’s overwhelming proliferation. If you don’t want to spend your Sunday morning on a soccer field, you can fit in a few Netflix shows or NFL games around brunch. I often feel like media is going to dump me in the frigid rushing rapids. I can’t keep up with, or avoid, the media deluge. And I’ll confess to sinful frustration when church prevents me from something so trivial as setting my fantasy football lineup. Frankly, the more I’m immersed in modern media, the stranger God’s Word sounds. That’s exactly why every church member needs God’s direct, prophetic Word every day—and especially from their pastors on Sunday. Church Members Are Divided I’m not sure if the bigger problem caused by media is distraction or division. They’re related, because many of our divisions are distractions, served up for voyeurs. The church beefs that attract so many eyeballs on social media remind me of Paul’s warning to Timothy against “myths and endless genealogies, which promote speculations rather than the stewardship from God that is by faith” (1 Tim. 1:4). These online arguments don’t edify the church or usually even affect our face-to-face local ministry. Yet our debates endure so long that they enrich the social media oligarchs who frame algorithms designed to enhance our divisions. Some pastors have made their ministries about these online divisions. They spend so much time on social media that I can’t imagine how they can fulfill their primary ministry obligations. Preaching to social media feeds isn’t caring for souls. That isn’t what a divided church needs. Godly pastors instead direct the church’s attention toward Christ’s unsearchable riches (Eph. 3:8). Remember, the talking heads don’t get paid to talk unless they can keep your and your people’s eyes away from Scripture, away from family, away from neighbors. The pundits divide so they can distract you from anyone but themselves. So when you’re online, look for people who will remind you what you’re missing offline. And be the kind of pastor who’s too busy caring about the church and the Scriptures to even know about the latest online controversies. Pastors, Take Courage Many pastors got the wrong idea about calling when they hopped in the river of ministry. They enjoyed the lazy river of positive responses when they talked about Jesus as a youth. Older adults affirmed them. Talking about Jesus and helping people seemed like a good life. Then came church jobs and seminary. Problem is, no one told them to expect the rapids. No one warned them about the waterfall around the bend. No one prepared them for lost friendships and betrayed confidences that would lead to the drifting in their heart, to Monday morning daydreaming about a job with better hours and better pay. It’s hard to stay on course for a lifetime. Heeding the call to ministry is agreeing to take a kayak down the rapids, hoping there’s no waterfall at the end. As a pastor, you face many temptations to drift, not least your congregation’s expectations and your heart’s sinful inclinations. The divisions and distractions on social media don’t help. One thousand pastors can be patient, kind, and mature. But the best-selling pastor who abused his congregation convinces some Christians they’ve found narcissists under every stole. Proper pastoral authority gets labeled as toxic. And maybe selling used cars doesn’t sound so bad after all, because no one subjects Buick dealers to such criticism. As a pastor, you face many temptations to drift, not least your congregation’s expectations and your heart’s sinful inclinations. There’s a fate worse than quitting and forsaking the call, however. Churches drift when, facing this scrutiny, their pastors mute their prophetic voices, when they censor Scripture to silence critics and protect a paycheck. Pastoral courage involves stepping into the pulpit prepared to preach the whole counsel of God, come what may. Only by following all of God’s Word can we protect the church from drift. Stay the Course Pastors are my heroes. Yes, the church has been beset by distraction and division. Yes, we can easily be discouraged. But amid the rocks and rapids of life, pastors have been invited to lead the way, to steer a course to safety. They must not waver. And though your course may lead to paddling over the waterfall, trust that God will somehow keep his promise when you crash. God has called pastors down the same path of discipleship as every other Christian. Jesus told his disciples, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it” (Matt. 16:24–25). That old rugged cross on Calvary hill guides the way forward, the way home. When we fix our eyes on Jesus, he will hold us fast.
Like
Comment
Share
Living In Faith
Living In Faith
41 w

Mentoring Doesn’t Happen Only in Coffee Shops
Favicon 
www.thegospelcoalition.org

Mentoring Doesn’t Happen Only in Coffee Shops

As a college student, I enjoyed regular meetings with my mentor at a coffee shop. Hearing the perspective of someone older and wiser helped me make big decisions about marriage, work, and family. This dedicated time for her to listen, ask questions, and pray for me was a blessing. But as life moved on, it became harder to schedule regular time for mentoring alongside work, family, and other responsibilities. So I started to look for different ways to pursue mentorship. And I found we don’t have to participate in a formal program or meet with a mentor every week to learn from other believers. Here are three ways mentoring can happen outside a coffee shop. Mentoring by Example When my husband and I first started ministering to high school students, we had a lot of questions. Thankfully, we were paired with an older, experienced couple who helped and prayed for us. They didn’t always tell us what to do—they showed us with their attitudes and actions. We didn’t have formal mentoring meetings, but learning from their example was a blessing and encouragement as we navigated ministry. Similarly, as a young couple, we enjoyed visiting families and learning from their routines. We’d watch them arrange supper, parent children, and entertain guests. I fondly remember going to our friends’ house as they watched a football game and offered warm bowls of chili. As guests arrived and children ran through the house, they still took breaks to engage with their children. We could see their intentionality in parenting and discipleship. Nothing was perfect, but observing a godly family practice the rhythms of meals, fellowship, and hospitality was powerful. We realized this wasn’t only a way we could indirectly find mentoring but also a way we could offer it by inviting people into our home. Nothing was perfect, but observing a godly family practice the rhythms of meals, fellowship, and hospitality was powerful. If you’d like to be mentored in a specific area—parenting, ministry, marriage—look around at godly people in your church and consider what you can learn from their example. And if you want to serve others seeking mentoring, a good place to start is inviting fellow church members into your home. Technology Together While meeting with others face-to-face is ideal, it’s not always possible. As I had children, in-person meetings became particularly challenging. I wanted to have deeper conversations, but making time to get out of the house seemed impossible. In that season, technology was helpful. I read a devotional with my sister-in-law, and we discussed our thoughts via text. She was further along in marriage and motherhood and could provide timely encouragement. Studying a book together made space for me to ask questions and learn from her experience. Even when our lives were hectic, we could send voice messages and learn from each other. There’s also the possibility of meeting over Zoom, Facetime, and other electronic means. When I was parenting a toddler, nap time provided a precious window to meet with others online. If needed, I could turn off my camera and still engage in conversation. We could be in different time zones or locations, but our desire to grow together in the Lord was still in sync. Is there someone in your community you could text with? Is there a book study you want to do, but you need accountability? Consider how you might utilize technology if in-person meetings aren’t possible. Asking Questions Another way to pursue mentoring is by asking godly women questions, even in a brief conversation. For instance, during coffee time on Sunday mornings, I often catch up with friends. But I’ve realized it’s a great opportunity to chat with an older woman and ask questions about marriage, children, and work. These short conversations have often provided needed encouragement in stressful times. Consider how you might utilize technology if in-person meetings aren’t possible. I remember a time when I was unsure about work opportunities and asked several women how they’d approached work in various seasons. They shared stories of pursuing the Lord for wisdom instead of relying on themselves. Their examples encouraged me to seek the Word’s priorities instead of the world’s. They spurred me toward love and good deeds (Heb. 10:24). Do you need wisdom and counsel on a particular topic? Look around at church this Sunday as you serve in the nursery and chat on the front lawn after the service. There’s probably a godly woman who’d be happy to answer your question. Many Ways to Find Mentoring In Titus 2, Paul gives specific directions for older women to “teach what is good” and “train the young women” in particular aspects of marriage and motherhood (vv. 3–4). But there are many ways and many places to “teach what is good,” including in the home, at church, or even online. Teaching doesn’t have to be in a coffee shop or classroom. Don’t give up on mentoring because your season or circumstances prevent you from participating in a traditional mentoring relationship. Be creative! The possibilities are endless, but the investment is worth it.
Like
Comment
Share
Showing 7832 out of 56667
  • 7828
  • 7829
  • 7830
  • 7831
  • 7832
  • 7833
  • 7834
  • 7835
  • 7836
  • 7837
  • 7838
  • 7839
  • 7840
  • 7841
  • 7842
  • 7843
  • 7844
  • 7845
  • 7846
  • 7847

Edit Offer

Add tier








Select an image
Delete your tier
Are you sure you want to delete this tier?

Reviews

In order to sell your content and posts, start by creating a few packages. Monetization

Pay By Wallet

Payment Alert

You are about to purchase the items, do you want to proceed?

Request a Refund