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There’s a fine line between a unique name and one that sets kids up for a lifetime of ridicule. On the one hand‚ maybe it shouldn’t matter what other people think‚ and parents should pick a name that suits their preferences‚ consequences be damned. On the other hand‚ their kid might not appreciate that kind of bravery after enduring years of bullying during childhood‚ followed constant confusion at Starbucks and truly unenviable work emails once they’re adults. And this chapter of parenting can be a little stressful—even more stressful if neither partner can agree on a name they both like. This was the case for a husband who absolutely hated a name his wife so eagerly wished to give their unborn son. But rather than follow the popular “one no‚ two yeses” rule of baby-naming‚ where both parents must agree on the name chosen for a child‚ the wife instead went full steam ahead with her idea. According to the husband’s account on Reddit‚ here’s what happened:“Me (25m) and my wife (23f) are having our first child together. She is currently 9 months pregnant and could give birth anytime in the next couple of weeks. The only major fight we have had throughout her pregnancy happened a couple days ago‚ and it was about what we were going to name our kid.”AITA for refusing to let my wife name our kid something stupid? byu/Public-Praline-3691 inAmItheAsshole“It all started when we found out the gender of the baby‚” he continued. “After we found out we were having a boy we sat down together and made a list. Almost all of the names she suggested were normal‚ until the one that caused me to write this post. She suggested we name our son Mune.”Mune. Like…dune an “m?” Or like “mun?” “Moon?” “Money?” “Mew-nay?” So many questions.“She told me the name was from this movie she watched when she was younger and that it always stuck with her‚” the husband explained‚ saying that when he told her it felt a “little out there” and was worried their son might get made fun of. After a little back and forth‚ the couple agreed to take the name Mune off the list. Or so the dad-to-be thought. “Later on in her pregnancy her mom decided to throw a baby shower as it was her first grandchild. It was fine for the most part until we started to open the gifts. Most of them were normal baby things like diapers and bottles‚ until we got to her mom’s gift. My wife opened the gift bag and pulled out a blue handmade blanket. It seemed normal enough at first until my wife unfolded it and low and behold there was the name Mune written on the blanket‚” he wrote.The man had tried to keep cool until after the party was over. However‚ when he confronted his wife about it‚ all hell seemed to break loose. “She got defensive and told me that it was a good name and that I was overreacting about it‚” he concluded. “I brought up the earlier points and told her it was a stupid name for a kid and if she wanted to name something Mune so bad she could use the name for a dog. She got upset and called her mom to come get her. After she left she called me and told me she wouldn’t be coming back for a while. Everyone I’ve talked to about this has said I’m not the asshole‚ but now that my wife has been gone and I've been thinking about it I feel like I could have handled the situation better.” Yikes. While the husband might have regretted his actions‚ public opinion overwhelmingly sided with him. One mom wrote‚ “Naming a baby is a 2 yes or 1 no situation. You do not name a child something your partner does not agree with. You find a compromise. This is the start of many necessary compromises in life and it is a total AH move to unilaterally decide on a child's name despite your partner's misgivings…She is absolutely not mature enough for motherhood if she can not find a reasonable compromise on this.” Another added “this is a child‚ not a goldfish. There are consequences and repercussions to choosing a name that is very unusual to begin with.... To go behind the other parent's back and tell a grandparent what the name is going to be‚ that is unacceptable.”Others noted how the wife and her mom “pulled a power play‚” which “in itself is an a**hole move.” In addition‚ many pointed out that running away from the conflict (leaving to go to mom’s house) might have not been the best way to handle the situation. “Leaving so she doesn’t have to face the argument is actually a form of abuse if it happens a lot‚” one person commented. “She may just have baby brain and be overreacting due to hormones‚ but that is red flag behavior of it can’t be dismissed for reasons beyond her control. And if there’s any doubt as to just how damaging weird name can be‚ take it from this person: “My name has prevented me from doing anything that would have my name called out in a crowd of people. Never tried sports. Military was a no go. I don't even want to apply for higher positions at work because I don't want to have meetings in closed rooms where people might call my name.“…Being forced to grow up with a weird name discouraged me from a lot of things and I began resenting my parents for thinking they were being creative. I had to live with it through grade school and high school. The ridicule didn't end until the damage was already done.”Raising a kid together is full of making compromises‚ prioritizing healthy communication‚ and honoring commitments‚ none of which are easy 100 percent of the time. But if couples can’t learn how to navigate these issues‚ then disagreeing on names is the least of their problems. We can all agree that parenting as true partners means men often need to step up their games. But it takes two for parenting to truly flourish and that includes respect your partner and making choices that are good for the entire family. Together. This article originally appeared on 10.19.23

What started out as a lighthearted class presentation quickly turned into a fabulous humanities lesson for all.A teacher under the pseudonym Larry Lexicon has 1.8 million followers on TikTok‚ where they tune in to catch the funny-yet-inspirational interactions Lexicon has with his students. Recently‚ Lexicon had his class rolling with his meticulously crafted PowerPoint explaining what certain Gen Z words mean. "All year long I've been listening to you and making a list‚ which I've compiled here for you — the Gen Z Term Dictionary‚" he told the class‚ saying that they should speak up if anything was inaccurate. Here’s what he came up with.He took “bruh‚” (aka the “staple of their generation”) to simply be the alternative for “bro‚” except that “bruh!” can also be used as an exclamation. That was correct. Although the word “Rizz‚” was fairly new to him‚ he also correctly guessed that this was short for “charisma‚” and thus refers to someone who has the ability to charm. “You can use it in all kinds of ways. Like I’m the Rizzard of Oz!” he joked.“Bussin” he took to mean that something was good‚ particularly food. Also correct. He even knew that “bussin’ bussin’” meant that something was really good. Clearly‚ Lexicon had done his homework. @larrylexicon Let me know if there are more terms I need to add to my list! #larrylexicon #doyourbuckingvocab #genzterms #teacherlife #highschool #teachersoftiktok #school ♬ original sound - Larry Lexicon However‚ a few people pointed out in the comments that many terms have roots in African-American Vernacular English (AAVE). So in his third TikTok‚ Lexicon chose to make some revisions‚ and explained to the class why those revisions were important. "I know you think you came up with a lot of these words‚ but you didn't‚ and they've been around for a long time‚" Lexicon said‚ noting how parts of AAVE language are at first “looked down upon by society as uneducated or thuggish” yet nonetheless sneak into daily vocabulary through pop culture. "What happens is it makes its way into like‚ white suburbia‚ and you get a middle-aged dorky white dude mislabeling it just for a whole generation as a term dictionary‚" he said. "And it ends up erasing the importance of it." @larrylexicon Food smacks‚ music slaps. Got it. #larrylexicon #aave #genzterms #teacherlife #teachersoftiktok #school #revisions #slaps ♬ original sound - Larry Lexicon Lexicon then admitted that it was a mistake made by his own ignorance‚ which was okay‚ because he was able to take feedback‚ learn and act on it to grow. “Being ignorant’s OK‚ but being willfully ignorant and not doing anything about it — not so OK."Viewers who have been following Lexicon’s series applauded him for taking the time to make even a silly little powerpoint into an important conversation for everyone involved. “I love how you’re learning it and then teaching it! This is education!” one person wrote. “The fact that you came back and showed HOW TO LEARN and that it’s OK NOT TO KNOW but not ok to be willfully ignorant‚” added another. “This is a hell of an example for your students‚” read the top comment.In case you’re curious‚ here are all the words gathered so far for the newly re-titled "AAVE-inspired Gen Z term dictionary."“Delulu”— delusional.“Eepy”— really sleepy.“Be so for real”— “Are you serious?” “Witerawy”— “Literally‚” but with emphasis."Baddie" — "A pretty girl‚ typically very curvy and independent." But can also be a guy. "Gyatt" — A substitute for “gosh darn!” typically used in response to seeing a baddie."Getting sturdy" — A dance usually used when winning‚ kind of like a touchdown dance."Bet" — Another way of saying "OK" or "alright." Likely a shortened version of “you bet.” "Slaps" — a verb for when a song is really good. Or food. Maybe? Debate’s still out on that one"Cap" — A lie."No cap" — The truth.“On god”— undeniable truth. Lexicon plans to add new words each week throughout the remaining weeks of school. If you’d like to follow along‚ he can be found on TikTok.This article originally appeared on 5.19.23

The coming of age era known as your twenties are a time for experimentation‚ branching out‚ learning about different aspects of yourself‚ and of course‚ having stupid fun. Of course‚ every generation's definition of fun varies. Just what might Gen Zers‚ those who navigated their teenhood through TikTok and basically came of drinking age during a global pandemic‚ do to elicit feelings of fun?Thirty-two year old (read: millennial) Ashley Tea wondered this very thing. In a video that went viral on TikTok‚ she shared "I genuinely think millennials got to have a way better time than Gen Z does."Tea then reminisced about her own experience of being “an emo kid in 2005‚” going out to clubs‚ bars and restaurants with her friends having a “fun‚ great‚ trashy” time. That simply wouldn’t be financially feasible in today’s economic landscape‚ Tea noted‚ leaving her “mystified” as to how today’s college age adults might enjoy themselves. So again‚ Tea posed the question: “ it's a Friday night‚ a Saturday night…What do do? Where do you go?”Thousands responded to Tea’s question‚ and their answers were…illuminating‚ to say the least—and certainly different than how she spent her early 20s.For starters‚ Tea’s joke about “Gen Zers not having any fun at all” rang true for many people of that age group. “As a 23 year old: I don’t have any fun‚ hope that helps!” quipped one person. Another joked‚ “sometimes I sit outside if I'm feeling extra.”One obvious factor behind this is finances. With everything being far more expensive‚ many Gen Zer’s simply cannot afford to have a social life that resembles earlier generations. “As a 21 year old‚ the economy makes it difficult to have fun that way‚ I work 40 hours weekly and I’m either too tired or can’t afford it‚” one person wrote. Another reason‚ which isn’t maybe as obvious‚ is surveillance. Tea noted that a lot of young people said that since either “parents can track their phones everywhere” they are deterred from doing things that could get them into trouble. Perhaps that’s a win for safety‚ but there is something to be said about excessive levels of control. Then of course there’s the pandemic‚ which sucked the fun out of everything big time. “I got ROBBED of my early 20s bs COVID started when I was 22 😭 Nwo things are normal but all the good bars and clubs in my area didn’t survive the lockdown‚” one person wrote. Plus a lack of third spaces to gather‚ leaving very little options beside staying home and scrolling on TikTok. However‚ it’s not all gloom and doom‚ Tea discovered. @ashleyteacozy im genuinely curious ♬ original sound - Ashley Tea For one thing‚ Gen Zer’s don’t “glorify binge drinking” nearly as much as millennials and Gen Xers. According to a study held at the University of Michigan‚ many are forgoing booze entirely. Part of this comes down to Gen Zers prioriotizing health and wellness more than previous generations. And the other‚ again‚ is the cost. Plus‚ when Gen Zers do actually have fun‚ it tends to lean towards more wholesome activities‚ like house parties (sometimes even themes house parties) and crocheting. Lots and lots crocheting apparently. So maybe things look quite a bit different for this generation. That’s not entirely a good or bad thing. And it’s definitely to be expected in some ways. The struggle of rising costs and limited opportunities to form connections and have fun are undeniably issues that must be addressed. But the fact that Gen Zers are leaning into their creativity is worth noting too. And it makes it clear that even though it might not look like it‚ there is still fun to be had.