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It’s understandable that fathers want to protect their daughters. But many parents today are calling out the age-old patriarchal approach of instilling fear and intimidation to do so. Even girl dads themselves. Recently, English Professor (and father of a teen girl) Neil Shyminsky, broke down exactly what is so problematic about this trope in a stitched TikTok. In the original clip, a father talks about meeting his 13-year-old daughter’s first boyfriend. “I knew this was coming, but I don’t know if I’m ready for it,” the dad says, adding that he did find the boy very respectful. Both of which Shyminsky could get behind…except maybe the “insistence” that the boy address him with his last name. But things really take a turn when the man says, “as a girl dad, it’s definitely hard knowing that the little baby you once held in your arms all of a sudden has got a boyfriend that’s starting to take your place.”“What now? I’m truly trying to figure out how he could ‘replace’ you…but all the answers I could come up with are deeply uncomfortable,” Shyminsky says. And we’ll just leave it at that. The dad goes onto share the “good news” that his daughter told him her boyfriend (i.e. a child) said he was “absolutely terrified” of him because of his physical build. And then the whole thing devolves into a weird message touting the importance of lifting weights, so that you won't need guns to intimidate young boys, and instead do it with hard-earned muscle. This is where Shyminsky drops a few truth bombs. @professorneil When they say ‘protect’, they mean ‘terrify’. #toxicmasculinity #masculinity #girldad #parenting ♬ original sound - Professor Neil “You want a 13-year-old to be terrified of you? ... He is 13. And so any adult man would probably seem huge,” he begins, adding that while he too is generally larger than the people around him, he prefers to measure success in terms of who feels safe in his presence, versus “how many small children I terrify.”Shyminsky goes on to say that while he wants the dating world to be as safe as possible for his daughter, prioritizing physical intimidation is the wrong way to accomplish that. For one thing, if this young boy only respects this man’s daughter out of fear of being hurt by her father, then he “is not anyone that we want getting anywhere near our daughters” in the first place, Shyminsky points out. And on that note, Shyminsky asks “If he’s supposed to respect and listen to you because your muscles are larger than his, how is your daughter supposed to treat him when his are in all likelihood larger than hers?”Said that bluntly, it’s easy to see how this strategy, however well intentioned, is a form of “toxic masculinity” that, as Shyminsky put it, causes suffering to those on “the wrong end” of it. Even those who are meant to be protected by it. Down in the comments, folks were entirely on board with Shyminsky’s hot take. ‘Fear is not respect,” one person wrote. Another quipped, “I feel like people get their parenting techniques from 90s sitcoms.”Parents want to protect their kids from all the many dangers of the world. But at the same time, it’s so important for kids to see firsthand how the important adults in their life lead with something other than fear, if we hope for them to do the same. This is a great example of how a mindset shift can help with that.Shyminsky actually has an entire TikTok treasure trove of videos dissecting our ever evolving views on manhood. Including a great one breaking down how masculinity as it "should be" has been in question since 400 BCE. @professorneil Men are never as masculine as they once were - and never have been #men #manhood #masculinity #toxicmasculinity #fragilemasculinity #greenscreenvideo #greenscreen ♬ original sound - Professor Neil Or this one delving into misandry vs misogyny: @professorneil #stitch with @jaystakes It’s not misandry, it’s misogyny #misogyny #misandry #sexism #feminism #feminismisforeveryone ♬ original sound - Professor Neil You can find these, and more, on his TikTok.

Cervical cancer is something that can go undetected if you're not in a position to get regular gynecological appointments. But with the new guidelines, allow for greater leeway between screenings for abnormal cervical cells. In America, the age to begin receiving pap smears, which is the test that can detect abnormal cells in the cervix, increased to age 21 and in the UK it's not given until 25.Though, this test can detect the cells much earlier and before symptoms start, the distance between testing has been increased to every 3-5 years instead of yearly. The decrease was backed by scientific evidence showing there wasn't an increase in detection of abnormal cells by doing the test more frequently. Ethan, a man who lost his sister in 2022 to cervical cancer partly blames the delay in testing with her untimely death.The grieving man took to TikTok to share a PSA on how important it is for women and people born with female anatomy to get their pap smears, sharing the cautionary tale of his deceased sister. "Have you got a vagina and don't want to die? Cause if that's the case please watch this video," Ethan starts out saying. "So I'm going to tell the story of how my sister passed away and the one thing that I want anyone to take away from her death and she would want anyone to take away from hear death is to look after your health." a woman sitting at a table with a model of a stomach Photo by Elen Sher on Unsplash He explains that in 2021 his sister started having a lot of large blood clots "the size of a size 10 foot" that she kept going back to the doctor for but was consistently dismissed. Ethan shares that his sister began going to the hospital weekly due to the amount of pain she was in and she continued to be dismissed for months before she was referred to the gynecologist. According to the woman's brother, the process to look to see what was going on was so painful that the gynecologist refused to continue with the appointment. "He said 'oh, I'm not doing this because you're in too much pain,' rather than actually investigating the reason why. Because she had a f***ing tumor inside her vagina that was the size of my fist. How the man missed that is beyond me. If he found that she'd probably f***ing still be alive cause she was neglected so bad throughout the whole route of this process." baby i'm sorry GIF by truTV’s I’m Sorry Giphy Ethan reveals that she started having symptoms in October of 2021 but it wasn't until February of 2022 that she was diagnosed after months of trying to be taken seriously. Unfortunately, the cancer had already spread to her lungs, liver and stomach and died at the age of 31, March 2022. "If you know something's wrong with you, only you know what's going on with your body so make sure you push harder. If you know that there's something wrong with you, you need to kick and scream and shout until you get what you f***ing want," he says as he shares what he hopes the main takeaway from his message will be. Happy New Year Feminist GIF by All Better Giphy "Cervical cancer is so common so make sure you get your smears done because if you don't get your smears done and you've got those cells...if you've got the beginning of those cells you can just get it burned away. My mom's had it done a thousand times. My auntie's had it done. But if you leave leave them then that can lay undetected in your body for years until it's too late. Cervical cancer is a massive problem."Ethan shares his frustration that the UK doesn't do pap smears until the age of 25 when it's the STI human papillomavirus (HPV) that causes many of the instances of cervical cancer. He's hoping that telling his sister's story will encourage people to not only get pap smears even if they have to pay for them out of pocket, but to advocate for themselves fiercely. @eefybeefy1 Replying to @Emma Parkinson the best ones always die first ❤️ #grief #fyp #foryou #cancer #storytime ♬ original sound - Ethan People in the comments are thankful he's speaking up while others are sharing their own stories of loss from delay in screenings along with not being believed. "my daughter died aged 23 from cervical cancer. basically the same story as yours. neglected for 2 year, then by the time they diagnosed her she had i month to live," one mom shares."My friend passed away age 30 of cervical cancer, they need to lower the age of smears" another grieving person writes."As a GP nurse conducting smears everyday I’m SO proud of you for advocating for women, and your sister like this! It’s not a scary process to do, it’s over and done with in less than a minute and I absolutely don’t care if your legs are hairy," a nurse chimes in."Sadly women are often not believed when it comes to their pain. Keep educating people Ethan, your sis would be so proud of you," someone else shares.Several women in the comments share that his video has caused them to schedule appointments for their pap smears after being overdue or afraid of going. So while his delivery may have included a few instances of adult language, his message seems to be heard clearly by those who are needing to hear it. Telling his sister's story may just save a few lives.

House Speaker Mike Johnson has become the Republican Party’s Glutton-For-Punishment-In-Chief, it seems. Last Sunday, Johnson appeared on ABC News’ This Week show, the one hosted by former Bill Clinton media fixer George Stephanopoulos, who has allegedly transmogrified himself into an objective messenger of truth. How well that went was that the “objective” George Stephanopoulos had the speaker of the House of the U.S. Congress on his show for nine minutes, and the two questions the ABC News propagandist had to offer were: Was it inappropriate, given demands to turn down the temperature in American politics following two assassination attempts on Donald Trump, for the former president’s son Eric to say, at the just-concluded return-trip rally in Butler, Pennsylvania, that Democrats were trying to kill his father (was Eric lying?); and Did Joe Biden win the 2020 election, which would make Trump a liar for having contested it, or was Johnson a kook and a liar along with Trump? It was the kind of “when did you stop beating your wife?” questioning that marks the interviewer as profoundly unserious and demonstrably lacking in good faith, and it didn’t go over so well with Johnson, who nevertheless managed to politely refuse to get sucked into Stephanopoulos’ stupid questions. At the time, I said Johnson could have been a little more rude. Certainly Stephanopoulos deserved that treatment for his obnoxious electioneering disguised as “objective” journalism. But the speaker was back on the Sunday circuit a week later, conversing this time with NBC News’ clownish Kristen Welker, and either Johnson listened to me or he’s just sick of stupid questions from highly paid dunces in the legacy corporate media, because nice-guy Mike managed to carry a bit sharper edge to him. And it worked out pretty well, because Johnson executed a decent pile-driver maneuver on Welker in response to questions even dumber than the ones Stephanopoulos vomited at him: Kristen Welker tried to humiliate Speaker Johnson and she ran into an absolute buzzsaw. All politics aside, it's glorious to see a smug journalist cut down to size like this pic.twitter.com/4eYG1rB5W0 — Kyle Becker (@kylenabecker) October 14, 2024 So good for Johnson. Watching that, I figured it wasn’t Welker’s idea to drop that stinkbomb of a question about Trump’s medical records. Not that Welker, who is positively rotten at her job for different reasons than Stephanopoulos is awful at his, isn’t capable of coming up with stupid questions on her own. It’s just that these things are never the bright idea of the talking-head host, who doesn’t get a job like that because he or she knows anything but rather for other reasons. It’s somebody else who thinks those things up. And all it takes is a little patience, and soon it becomes obvious where something as moronic as trying to make a federal case out of Trump’s neglecting to divulge his cholesterol levels would come from. Where do you think it might have originated? Careful, you don’t want to get whiplash from your surprise when I show you: Donald Trump refuses to release his medical records, and he is unwilling to meet for a second debate. Why does his staff want him to hide away? Are they afraid that people will see that he is too weak and unstable to lead America? — Kamala Harris (@KamalaHarris) October 13, 2024 The amazing thing is Welker floats that air biscuit at Johnson, and he bats it away like a housefly, and in no time flat the clip is being shared all over social media as “Mike Johnson SCHOOLS Kristen Welker After Stupid Cholesterol Question,” and Sunday afternoon amid the laughing, Harris’ handlers decided to invest her in that controversy. The ratio Harris took after that tweet was legendary, and for the obvious reason that attacking Donald Trump for his age and health after nearly four years of lying to the American people that Joe Biden was fit to hold the job is outrageously rich. But everything about Harris and the $700 million-and-counting campaign attempting to drag her into the White House is outrageously rich at this point. Some idiot who’s responsible for the embarrassingly bad jokes Jimmy Kimmel tells on his failing late-night talk show put together an ad aimed at attempting to get men to vote for Kamala, and the ad was literally the best thing that has happened to Trump so far in this campaign. It’s so cringe, so unmitigatedly out of touch, and so utterly insulting to actual men that, as Andrew Klavan said, “This ad makes me wish I supported Kamala Harris, so I could see this ad and change my mind.” Lou Aguilar gave the ad a proper spanking in his American Spectator column Monday, so there’s no need to trouble ourselves further. But then there is the Tim Walz cavalcade of fiascos, from his demonstrable failure to load a shotgun on a press-avail pheasant hunt, to the unanswered questions about the many trips he’s taken to China not at his own expense over the years. Walz has gone from the supposed traditional male anchor of the ticket to an anchor around Harris’ neck as the lack of vetting around his selection of VP continues to haunt her. And then, of course, there’s Doug Emhoff. Monday being Columbus Day, this naturally resurfaced… Kamala Harris on Columbus Day: “European explorers ushered in a wave of devastation, violence, stealing land, and widespread disease” pic.twitter.com/3XijDf5Ldo — End Wokeness (@EndWokeness) October 14, 2024 I had a friend tell me a couple of weeks ago that Kamala would cut her own electoral throat on Columbus Day by reprising that message. As of this writing, she hadn’t, but does it matter? That video tells you all you need to know about what she thinks of America, and specifically about those white men her handlers are trying to con into voting for her — at this point if you’re one of them and you’ll still vote for this woman, what’s toxic about your masculinity is your lack of it. It isn’t like she can walk that statement back. Everybody will know how insincere she is in doing so. Oh, by the way — white guys are the least of Kamala’s problems. Barack Obama, who’s ultimately responsible for all of this gargantuan cloud of civilizational failure that Harris is coming to personify, made a stink last week when he appeared before cameras whining that “the brothers” — meaning black men that he identifies with only as a matter of politically expedient identity — aren’t enthusiastically backing The Candidate Of Joy as they should, and implying it’s sexism. One respondent to that posted that “I have a father, I know who it is, and he ain’t you.” Which was well said, and quite true. Barack Hussein Obama, Jr., is the father of no man, literally or figuratively, and his political children are becoming orphans in real time particularly as Harris’ flagging poll numbers begin delivering swing states into Trump’s camp and her staffers begin dishing dirt in preparation for a loss to Trump. And the Stephanopouloses and Welkers of the world, with their bad-faith questions and slavish devotion to Team Obama/Biden/Harris’ manufactured, curated narratives, might end up the most lasting victims of what’s coming if this current direction persists. READ MORE: Five Quick Things: This Is All the Left’s Fault, You Know Tucker’s Interview With Elon Is Required Viewing for Everybody Of Course Kamala Hates Men. It’s Understandable. The post And Now, the Cholesterol Race Begins appeared first on The American Spectator | USA News and Politics.